100 things about me…

I wrote one of these a few years ago… but it was a bit out of date… so here we go again 🙂

  1. I was born in Verdun (Montreal)
  2. I was raised in Nelson BC
  3. I want to go back there to live and raise my family
  4. I was raised by my mom
  5. My mom has been married twice
  6. My mom had been widowed twice
  7. My dad is still alive
  8. My first step dad was gay and died of aids in 97
  9. My second step dad died of liver cancer/cirrhosis in 2004
  10. I met my bio dad when I was 9
  11. I am now starting to get closer to him
  12. I am an only child
  13. I have both a step-brother and a half brother whom I don’t see or talk to
  14. I love being a mama
  15. I have three great boys
  16. I love being a stay-at-home mom
  17. I live about an hour out of Montreal
  18. I wish I had more of a community in my area
  19. I would love to live on a property with another family or two
  20. I met Simon through a BBS
  21. I was married at 21
  22. Next May (2008) will be our 10 year anniversary
  23. I wore ‘Docs’ under my wedding dress
  24. We got married at Montreal City Hall
  25. We are both Atheists
  26. I have never believed in a religion or a god
  27. I have a degree in religion
  28. I have always wanted kids
  29. I would like another child
  30. I have always known that I would homeschool
  31. On our first date I told Simon that if I had kids I would homeschool
  32. We are unschoolers
  33. I find Quebec to be a very unfriendly place for homeschooling
  34. I advocate Natural parenting and living
  35. I don’t wear make-up
  36. I don’t use products in my hair
  37. I have two tattoo’s that I got when I was 16
  38. I have a tongue stud
  39. I like seeing women and men with grey hair
  40. I dyed my hair red one time at the end of pregnancy with Xavier
  41. We co-sleep most of the night
  42. I love breastfeeding
  43. I have “triandem” nursed
  44. Xavier weaned himself just before his fifth birthday
  45. I am Tandem nursing Colin and Khéna (4 and 2)
  46. I was a peer-to-peer Breastfeeding Counsellor
  47. I was not breastfed
  48. I was sick often as a child
  49. I avoid doctors now
  50. I have asthma but I have not had many problems the last few years
  51. Being around smokers triggers my asthma
  52. Perfumes do the same
  53. I am very sensitive to scents
  54. I get seriously offended if someone smokes close to me or my kids
  55. Almost all of my Family and Simon’s family are smokers
  56. I hate wearing socks and shoes
  57. We have a no shoe “rule” in the house
  58. My first birth was a hospital birth
  59. I was transferred from the birthing center for failure to progress (49 hours in all)
  60. I refused the C-Section the Doctors were trying to scare me into
  61. I have had two back labours with posterior babies
  62. My second birth was a birth center birth
  63. I haemorrhaged after giving birth to Colin because of a managed 3rd stage
  64. I had an Unassisted Pregnancy with Khéna
  65. I had an Unassisted water birth with Khéna
  66. I will UP/UC again
  67. I loved birthing in water
  68. I find people reactions to UC a bit funny sometimes so I don’t hesitate talking about it.
  69. We don’t do “well baby visits”
  70. We don’t vaccinate
  71. I love to cook
  72. I hate bland food
  73. I make most of our food “from scratch”
  74. I bake bread every few days
  75. We avoid artificial colouring and flavours for allergy and behaviour issues
  76. I love Sushi and make it as often as I can
  77. Most of the cookbooks in my home are Vegan
  78. I am not a Vegetarian
  79. I don’t eat enough vegetables
  80. We never did “baby foods”
  81. I am trying to lose weight
  82. I am lazy
  83. I lost 50 pounds with weight watchers before I got pregnant with Xavier
  84. I try to swim 3 times a week… but usually only go twice
  85. I am addicted to the internet
  86. I write many blog posts in my head in the shower
  87. My best friend lives across the country (we met on the internet 😉 )
  88. I used the name “paxye” for the first e-mail account that I made about 12 years ago. A hotmail account that I still have and use for junk and MSN.
  89. I love to sew
  90. I hate patterns
  91. My favourite colours are red and Orange
  92. I love taking pictures
  93. I hate cleaning
  94. I like to wash dishes but hate drying them and putting them away
  95. I listen to talk radio
  96. I go to bed way too late every night
  97. My hair is really long
  98. I don’t use products in my hair besides Baking Soda and Apple Cider Vinegar
  99. I love the smell of Patchouli

Some mistakes turn out for the best…

I have issues when it comes to sewing…

I can’t do patterns… I have no patience for them… they always look much more complicated than they should be… maybe they aren’t… I don’t know… but I just I can’t use them….

So I wanted to make some pants for KhĂ©na…

I had a semi pattern that I cut out a few months ago when I made a pair of cords for him… the problem was that back then no pattern would fit him… the waist had to be a size 3-4, the crotch had to be wider than the pattern for that size because of the cloth diaper and the legs had to be WAY shorter…

So I adjusted the pattern to the way I thought would work… and it worked… in a way…

By mistake I adjusted the pattern upside down… I figured out my mistake after I had cut and “tried” to assemble them… and finally after a lot of frustration and puzzle making…. I ended up with a pair of pants that fit him… but was nothing like the pattern I had made…

This summer, I made the same mistake… again…

So yesterday I decided to try again… I got the pattern out and got some Jean material that I had bought for this…

I looked at it and thought “omg I am not going to make that mistake again” so I erased the words “top” at one end of the patterns and wrote them at the other end… then cut the material making sure that I added more length…. sewed the outside seams and then realized that I had already corrected the pattern the last time I had made the mistake.. so again… I cut them upside down… arghh!!!

I did the puzzle thing again… I didn’t want to waste the material so I decided to cut what was too much at the top and then add a bit of corduroy to fill the space that was missing and add that to the bottom… of course then the brown cord looked a bit out of place so I thought about some pockets on the side with appliquĂ©’s to compliment the colours… and it worked…

I am SO happy with the way that they turned out!!!! I think that I am going to make more of the same… (well… this time on purpose!!)

I wanted to make them a little longer so that they fit for longer… So at the moment they fit Colin perfectly… so I now need to decided to hem them for KhĂ©na or have Colin wear them and make another pair for KhĂ©na (I would make them a bit less baggy for KhĂ©na also)


New Jeans...

New Jeans...

I need to get out more…

With the price of Gas in the last year being so high I have not been going out as much…

Montreal is the place to be for homeschooling in Quebec. But Montreal is about 90 km away… about an hour driving or more depending on the location… Which means that as the price of gas went up I went out less and I am feeling more and more like we are missing out on stuff… There are groups that get together on a regular basis, that do things and go places together… that just hang out and talk at least once a week etc..there are also English home schoolers/kids there… which is something I think that the kids need…

Of course, the price of gas is not the only reason I don’t get out much… I am a homebody… I like to be at home… and sometimes going out with the three kids was a lot of work and it was not something that I looked forward to all of the time… but as the kids get older that is changing. Xavier is getting to be less intense and the other two follow more…. It is actually getting fun to go out again…

So I have decided that we are going to change this… I need to change it… so I am going to be joining the Montreal Homelearners group every week…. They meet on Thursdays at 11am-3pm which means that we don’t have to leave the house too early to get there and we don’t have to come back in the dark and we can pick up Simon who works about 10 min away from there and see him a bit earlier also…

Parenting Books…

I have been reading and rereading a few books lately and I thought that I would share the my list of “must haves”…

I would guess that many of you already know and love these books but if you don’t and you have kids or are around kids you need to read them..

The difference between these books and mainstream parenting books are that these are not all “how to” books… they are not books meant to give quick fixes while putting parents into an “us against them” frame of mind with children. They are not all-in-one manuals and instead all compliment each other.  These  are books that will change the way that you think about children and how they are and should be raised.


Calling all homeschoolers!

Here is a really cool website to register on…

Homeschool Media Network

You can use an alias if you are under the radar or just don’t want to use you name and you can list yourself as a homeschooler in you region and maybe find other homeschoolers… the site is also a way to see how many homeschoolers there actually are…

it is free and it takes just a few minutes…

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