La Bassine…

I tried out the birth pool last night… the motor was so loud to blow it up but it didn’t wake up the kids at all… Simon’s ears were ringing though!

It took about 25 min to fill up the pool and one hot water tank full (we can’t figure out how to put the temp higher on the tank) anyway… it was pretty much the perfect temp with what we had… I got in and vegged out for a while before I decided that it would be better just a bit warmer… Simon heated up some water on the stove and that made all the difference… I stayed in for about another 30 min after that and the water stayed at the exact same temp so I know that it keep the temp well…

The test run also brought a test run of uncomfortable contrax… I had checked myself a few days ago and was still closed, not really effaced but soft…. My cervix was also still quite posterior… this morning I decided to check again and I was so surprised that after the few hours of contrax last night I am now dialated a bit, mushy and much more effaced and my cervix is much easier to reach…

Though I know that it doesn’t mean anything what it means for me is that things are different this time around…. I never dialated before labour… the boys were posterior and just didn’t put any pressure on my cervix… so what it tells me is that things have a good chance of being different this time… I may have th chance of getting a shorter and better birth experience… not having back labour and labour not stalling at 3-4 cm after spending hours to get there…

We decided that it will be better to keep the pool inflated until the birth… It will be placed in the living room when the time comes so for now it is propped up against the patio door in the kitchen…

I am very happy with my pool choice… is is SO comfy, I love the height, I love how sturdy it is and I love the shape (oval) which makes it so that I can have my legs extended or turn sideways and be able to push against the side… the inside handles make it easy to change position and it just feels like a little cocoon but not suffocating at all…. I feel comfortable and safe in there…

Oh… and while I was in there I decided to make it an ultimate test time and eat the rest of the Haagen Daaz Baileys Ice Cream that I bought a few days ago… yummm……

running around in the rain with a pregnant brain and other stuff….

OK… So yesterday was a weird day in my Uterus… the babe moved from LOA to ROA, resting on the left side of my pelvis then decided to make it self at home on the right…

Simon and I wanted to get the trial run of the birth pool done last night after supper… we got everything out and then I went to hook up the pump to the faucet in the kitchen and it didn’t work… the adapter that came with it also didn’t fit… so we didn’t get it done but said that we will do it tonight…
I was having tons of cramps all evening… not at all contrax but just gas…. I seem to get really constipated at the end of pregnancy even though I try to eat a lot of fiber and drink a lot of water… but reading a bit shows me that it is normal part of pregnancy… ahh the fun…. finally I decided to go to bed cause I was just in too much pain to be sitting on the couch anymore… but of course laying down is not something that I want these days because my pelvis hurts so much…

Anyway…  during the night I had tons of pelvic pain again and Colin didn’t sleep well and I just didn’t get much sleep… I got up to pee and I couldn’t get one foot in front of the other, my pelvis hurt so much.. I got back to bed and felt the baby shift again and the pain went away, not all of it but enough that I could move a bit without tears again… I was actually able to lift my leg to put a pillow between my knees without wincing…

So now, the babe is moving a lot less, the movement is more centered, the bum is right up in the middle and the body seems to disappear into my pelvis instead of hanging out right above it… Before if I pushed down on the bum a bit I felt the pressure on pelvic bone… now… it presses down on my bladder and cervix… my tummy also has shrank a bit but it pointing out near the fundus… So I have a feeling that the babe is finally in a better position…

So this morning I woke up and thought it took me a few minutes to get moving well it was a lot better than the last few weeks… we ate breakfast, vegged out a bit and then I got the kids dressed and got ready to head out into the rain to go get a few things (faucet adapter, TP, lightbulbs and a few other things)… I went to the mall and headed to Zellers… didn’t find what I needed… headed to “The Source” found what something else that I needed there, went to Sears to pick up a few catalogues that I ordered but the one that I really wanted went to another pick-up counter… headed back out in the rain and drove to the hardware store for the adapter for the faucet… got there and the lady showed me what I needed and then asked me why the adapter that came with it didn’t work and I told her that the threads were on the wrong side for my kind of faucet…then pointed out that I would just take out the rubber piece inside and it would work…. So I walked back into the rain a bit red faced… went to the other counter to pick up the catalogue, then went and got lunch for the boys and I and came back home realizing that I had forgotten to buy a few things but no more energy to go back out…..

so…. it is an “ughhhhhh day” pregnancy brain is in full force being forgetful, it is raining and yucky out… I have no more energy, we need TP and I just feel like complaining…

but tonight I will be trying out the pool!!! I may even stay in it and watch TV for a while…

Great blog…

A google search of cervices led me to a blogging midwife somewhere in Cyberspace… I can’t stop reading…she is really interesting… talking a little about everything, sharing her present and past and is just honest and outgoing….

Go read her too! Navelgazing Midwife

contrax… contrax…. contrax…. move…. nothing

Since Friday I have been having contrax at regular intervals off and on… nothing to really think it was the start of labour but just enough to annoy me and wonder…

My pelvic pain has been so bad the last few days also… It really looked and felt like things were gearing up….

then last night… I slept… I slept well and I didn’t have as much pain when I turned over… I mean… I could actually turn over without tears…. it still hurts a lot but not nearly as much…

Babe has also changed position… instead of being LOA it has moved to ROA… and I think the reason the pain went down was that the babe was a bit sideways for a while and it’s head was lodged right on top of my left hip and putting a lot of pressure there… now I don’t feel that pressure there anymore… and the pain is a lot less… now to find the head again… though I have a feeling it may be a bit lower because I have not stopped using the bathroom since this morning…
I also haven’t had a contrax really today… so I don’t know what happened but the last few weeks look a bit brighter now… I was really getting to the point that I didn’t want to be pregnant anymore, now I feel that I can stand another week or two without a problem… though of course, I am looking forward to meeting the little one…

We are not ROBOTS!!!!

I am getting so tired of hearing about inductions for no reason other than impatience!!!!

If you look up term pregnancy anywhere you will read that pregnancy comes to term between 37 and 42 weeks. That means that as many babies will come naturally at 37 weeks as they will come at 42 weeks. The median of course is that “due date”, that date that everyone has their eye on. But just like 37 weeks is not pre-term if a baby comes on their own,  42 weeks is not overdue. It is NORMAL and HEALTHY. Most 1st time moms will go into labour at around 41.5 weeks as the norm. They are not “overdue”, they are not “at risk”, they do NOT need to be induced. The babies are not more at risk either, women may be tired and impatient at the end of a pregnancy,but, that’s life. There is NO need to induce!

Docs however, have also seemed to have forgotten what they learned, or maybe they never learned about natural birth. They seem to see women and babies as Robots, needing to be all the same size, gain the same amount of weight and the same gestational period. The minute that 37 week hits they start getting impatient too and for NO good reason.

Most of the women that called me for breastfeeding support all had the same story: Their doctor (the same doctor) proposed induction at 38 weeks just because they were “term” at that point and I would have to say that 3/4ths of them ended up to be C/S’s and the others had other complications. Not many women that I have talked to have had a complication free delivery and I think I have only talked to 1-2 moms that had a natural birth and went into labour on their own and I have never heard of someone having a pregnancy over 40 weeks at this hospital…

This is really sad and upsetting for me…

Right now I am nearing the end of my pregnancy… actually tomorrow I will be considered to be at officially term as I will be 38 weeks. I am also officially tired of being pregnant, I am sore, I have trouble sleeping, my pelvis feels like it is falling apart and I can’t turn in bed without having tons of pain. If I was a mainstream mom that actually trusted OB’s and wasn’t informed about the risks (or just blindly thought that doctor wouldn’t do anything that had significant risks for no reason) then I would maybe be wanting to be induced… knowing what I know however, what the risks are and trusting my body and what is normal and natural instead of an impatient “care” provider I would never be induced, especially for non-medical reasons such as impatience…

So what are the Risks?

First, induction will not work if your body is not ready to go into labour yet. That means that more meds need to be used and it can lead to failed inductions and stress on the body and baby. When the meds do work they often produce unnaturally strong contractions. Pretty much every woman you will talk to that has been induced has not been able to give birth naturally because the contractions are so strong. Why? Because these strong contractions can lower the baby’s heart rate and cause fetal distress because of the lack of oxygen that occurs with the strong contractions. It can also lead to uterine rupture which puts both the mom and the baby’s life at risk. It almost always leads to an epidural and other drugs to help deal with those unnaturally strong contractions and when a woman is drugged, the meds also go to the baby, which again can lead to fetal distress. Moreover, when the epidural is given it can stall labour so even more meds are needed.

At that point however, the labour will be labelled as “failure to progress” and a C/S is the most likely outcome. Many women are even told that it is an emergency because the child’s life is at risk and indeed many times it may be. But it is an emergency that has been caused by the initial intervention.

Inducing also automatically means that women most likely cannot walk around in labour, are mostly confined to the bed, given an IV and catheter and are not “allowed” to eat or drink.. The position that women are forced to take in the hospital is the worst position to give birth in, not allowing for gravity to help and making the pelvis smaller than in other positions. The baby is less able to go into the right position and descend into the birth canal. Women are often made to push before the body is ready and the baby is in the optimal position just because they are at a magical number of 10cm which can mean very little and can spend hours pushing the baby out because of this. This can also lead to fetal distress, can lead to fatigue (especially if the woman has been starved for hours) and often leads to more interventions such as the use of the vacuum or Forceps and or lead to a C/S. There will be many reasons given for these interventions (pelvis too small, baby too big etc… ) mostly it is just the simple result of being in an unnatural birthing position just because it gives the best view to the doctor.

Because, of course, the doctors view and comfort is more important than the health and wellbeing of the woman giving birth and the baby coming out. (/sarcasm)

Another risk to induction (breaking the waters or giving meds) is cord prolapse.  If the baby is not in the optimal position and labour is induced, or the waters are broken even in a natural birth, just to make things “go faster”, or really for no reason other than the doctor or midwife wanting to intervene, the cord may come out before the babies head especially since the mom is most likely laying down with gravity working against her.  Cord prolapse is dangerous and makes for an automatic C/S and is often directly caused by the procedure. It is highly unlikely to happen naturally. When the waters break before labour starts it is often due from pressure that head puts on the membranes and the head with gravity works as a plug not letting the cord go by. Most often however, the membrane will rupture near the end of labour when the head is engaged and the mom is in active labour making cord prolapse virtually impossible.

Induction, especially artificially breaking the water also rises the risk of infection which can lead to problems with mom and baby later on also. However having the waters broken is not the problem in this case it is the whole intervention of “checking” to cervix that is the most likely cause of infection. The rule of thumb with broken waters is to keep hands away.

Induction, not just inducing labour, but other interventions that often go hand in hand with inducing labour put so many lives at risk and too often lead to C-Sections and further health problems. C/S, epidural use and other interventions make the breastfeeding rate decline which puts children and their moms at even higher risk for other medical problems later on in life, and often nulls the chance of a natural birth and puts the mom and future babies at risk also. It also has a very real effect on the natural microbiological gut flora.

There are so many other things that can go wrong because of the interventions that have taken the place of natural childbirth. Many women really don’t know or understand the risks of all of the interventions and instead just put all of their trust in others instead of themselves, and if something goes wrong then it is others that are to blame or it isn’t even know that it is a risk and then the doc is the hero at the end of it without realizing that the doc was also the cause.

Inductions are rising, C/S are rising and labour and birth are just becoming riskier and riskier because of it. The fear of childbirth is rising and the lack of trust in the body and in what is natural is being replaced by it. Doctors are the biggest problem in this and that women have been taught to put all of their trust in them is one of the saddest parts of birth today.

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