drawing and more…

In the last few weeks I have seen a big change in Xavier’s interests and the way he is looking at things…

First… He now sits down at the table and draws… out of his own accord…

Every few months in the past I would try to get him to do that and most of the time nothing came out of it… he would be frustrated that what he drew didn’t look like what he wanted to draw. I would get frustrated because I thought that he “should” be doing it and maybe even liking it but he wasn’t… I finally let go of that idea and just waited… The paper, crayons, markers and all of the other creative stuff were accessible he would use them when he wanted… or at least I hoped… and now he does… Our creative line that hangs in the kitchen was bare or full of old creations for the longest time and now it has all fresh stuff on it.. and there are now even a few drawings taped to the wall that Xavier put up…

Another big change in Xavier is eating… he is now trying foods that he has always turned his nose up to… Supper time has been a lot more fun and I love seeing him discover new tastes… Colin of course is going into the picky stage… but a weird one… he will eat Sushi and seaweed salad but won’t eat pepperoni pizza…

I go through phases of feeling that I need to do more than unschooling… I think a lot of it has to do with the lack of real-life support..  I truly believe that unschooling is the right way for our family though and as the kids grow older, because really even Xavier is still so young, I feel my confidence will grow.

For now… I am learning to relax, answer questions and let them discover… and though there are still many struggles to overcome for myself I love the path that we are letting them lead.

independant homeschooling study…

Home schooling improves academic performance and reduces impact of socio-economic factors

TORONTO, ON—Home schooling appears to improve the academic performance of children from families with low levels of education, according to a report on home schooling released today by independent research organization The Fraser Institute.

“The research shows that the level of education of a child’s parents, gender of the child, and income of family has less to do with a child’s academic achievement than it does in public schools.”

The study also reports that students educated at home outperform their peers on most academic tests and are involved in a broad mix of social activities outside the home.

Research shows that almost 25 per cent of home schooled students in the United States perform one or more grades above their age-level peers in public and private schools. Grades 1 to 4 home school students perform one grade level higher than their public- and private-school peers. By Grade 8, the average home schooled student performs four grade levels above the national average.

Hepburn said a growing body of new research also calls into question the belief that home schooled children are not adequately socialized.

“The average Canadian home schooled student is regularly involved in eight social activities outside the home. Canadian home schooled children watch less television than other children, and they show significantly fewer problems than public school children when observed in free play,” she said.

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Happy Thanksgiving!

To our fellow Canadians of course…

Thanksgiving really marks the beginning of Autumn for me and I love Autumn.

The colours are changing, the air is cool and the leaves are starting to fall and it all just makes me feel homey. I feel like cooking hearty slow cooked meals, I feel like sitting outside with a warm cup of tea and watching the kids play in the leaves.

Last Friday we went to “La Courgerie” A pumpkin, squash and gourd farm with the local homeschooling group.

We took the Ferry and then it was a 15 min ride there. 4$ each gave us a tour of the farm and learning about the types of gourds and squash. A taste of products that they make there on the farm and the owner also showed us the some instuments made in africa that are made from gourds which all the kids got to hold and we all made music at the same time. We also went a picked pumpkins and then had a tractor ride around the farm.

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Tonight we are eating the Traditional Thanksgiving supper…

Turkey, mashed potatoes and gravy, maple glazed carrots, homemade cranberry sauce, stuffing and Pumpkin pie for dessert… Xavier is really looking forward to it all and has even made a centre piece with somethings that we found at the farm… including this one…

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recycling…

Today we went to the Recycling Triage plant with the homeschooling group and we had really great time… It was also quite informative because we had quite a few questions on how things are separated since we no longer separate recycling at home.

We got some breakfast and ate on the road and had a nice ride there (about an hour drive). The tour started with a visit to where people bring stuff from their homes that are then recycled (wood, paint, concrete, metal etc) or thrown out (broken furniture, appliances, oil etc)

Then we headed for the triage plant but we were lucky to have a truck arrive and unload in front of us….

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Then we had a little information session on what they do, how it is done and where it goes and what is done with it after…

Xavier surprised me… not only did sit and listen he even put up his hand to ask a question…

“Can toys be recycled”

The answer was no.. not because the type of plastic is not recyclable but because the type of plastic is not indicated on it.

Then we went on a tour of how they do triage…

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Magnet that takes Metal out…

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Xavier

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Xavier stayed next to me the whole time but Colin made two friends and stuck with them… they even lifted him up to see things!

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and here is a video just to show How fast things are moving in there… the workers are taking plastic bags out of the paper…

it was really a great day…

anti-formula?

I just got this message in my inbox…

I know you are anti-formula. What about special circumstances?? Premmies??

Preemie Twins?? Just wondering what your thoughts on this are?

What are my thoughts? Hmmm….

First, I think that this is a good read… so that what I say does not look like it was pulled out of thin air or that I am simply “anti-formula”…

These are a few paragraphs in the main publication on Infant feeding put out by the World Health Organization. (WHO)

Promoting appropriate feeding for infants and
young children

10. Breastfeeding is an unequalled way of providing ideal food for the healthy growth and development of infants; it is also an integral part of the reproductive process with important implications for the health of mothers. As a global public health recommendation, infants should be exclusively breastfed for the first six months of life to achieve optimal growth, development and health.

Exercising other feeding options
18. The vast majority of mothers can and should breastfeed, just as the vast majority of infants can and should be breastfed. Only under exceptional circumstances can a mother’s milk be considered unsuitable
for her infant. For those few health situations where infants cannot, or should not, be breastfed, the choice of the best alternative – expressed breast milk from an infant’s own mother, breast milk from a healthy wet-nurse or a human-milk bank, or a breast-milk substitute fed with a cup, which is a safer method than a feeding bottle and teat – depends on individual circumstances.
19. For infants who do not receive breast milk, feeding with a suitable breast-milk substitute – for example an infant formula prepared in accordance with applicable Codex Alimentarius standards, or a home-prepared formula with micronutrient supplements – should be demonstrated only by health workers, or other community workers if necessary, and only to the mothers and other family members who need to use it; and the information given should include adequate instructions for appropriate preparation and the health hazards of inappropriate preparation and use. Infants who are not breastfed, for whatever reason, should receive special attention from the health and social welfare system since they constitute a risk group.

From another text….

Is Breastfeeding Important for My Premature Baby?
The milk produced by the mother of a pre-term infant is higher in protein and other nutrients than the milk produced by the mother of a term infant. Human milk also contains lipase, an enzyme that allows the baby to digest fat more efficiently. Your breastfed preemie is less likely to develop infections that are common to babies fed breastmilk substitutes. He will be protected by the immunities in your milk while his own immature immune system is developing.

So… on to my answer…

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In my opinion, A baby born premature should be fed breast milk with no exception. As the WHO explains, even for full term children Formula is the FIFTH feeding method recommended and when Formula is being fed, those children become part of a risk group.

A premature infant needs the protein, fat, enzymes that breast milk alone can provide. Premature babies that are fed breast milk are less likely to develop infections and are protected by the immunities in human milk. They are not only more likely to survive and thrive with less problems in the time they are most vulnerable, but will be better off later in life also.

Does my opinion, or that of the WHO or LLL mean that we are anti-formula? No, I do not believe that it does, but it does mean that we are pro-breastfeeding.

Breastfeeding is the norm. It is the baseline. There is nothing that equals it and could ever equal it. It is a substance that is perfectly designed for the optimal growth of our species. It is ever-changing and meeting the changing needs of our babies from one nursing session to the next. When you take the breastfeeding out of the act of breast milk you are already changing it and making it less perfect so even pumped milk is not exactly equal to milk directly from the breast.

Because the composition of human milk is still not completely known and because it is ever-changing and “alive” it will never and could never be replicated. Formula is simply inferior to breast milk and is a product that puts children at risk. The lack of  breastfeeding or using breast milk leaves children vulnerable to illness and is the reason for countless deaths every year, even in wealthy and westernized societies. However, it is also there for a reason.

There are 1% of women that can not breastfeed physically. There are others that need to take medications that are not compatible with breastfeeding. (there are not many meds that are incompatible, most are OK, but there are some that are not). There are other extreme “special circumstances” that occur also, and though donor milk may be becoming a more popular option it is still quite rare, milk banks are the same, as are wet-nurses. So, Formula is a breast milk substitute that will be needed in extreme cases.

When breast milk, in any of its forms can not be given it is of course preferable to give Formula over simple cow milk or other milks; But, it doesn’t make it equal, nor do not believe that it should be a simple choice.

Because Formula brings risks and Infants fed Formula are part of a recognized risk group, I think that the logical step should be that Formula should be available by prescription. It would be there for those “special circumstances” but it would not be available otherwise.

Now, I do not think that moms that do not breastfeed are bad moms, nor do I believe that they should feel guilty over not breastfeeeding, but I do believe that there is a false belief that Formula is a safe alternative to breastfeeding. I believe that doctors and birth and child “professionals” are not well educated and that breastfeeding is routinely sabotaged and the importance of breastfeeding is often downplayed. I believe that society has over-sexualized the breast and that children are put second over adult hangups. But the real culprit is the Formula companies….  they are the ones that see money instead of lives. Formula companies should have to conform to “WHO code” and not be allowed to market to the public, nor give samples, gifts, products etc that promote breast milk substitutes.

So if you look at it in that sense, maybe I am “Anti-Formula”.

Here are some more good reads…

HEALTH IMPLICATIONS OF DIRECT ADVERTISING OF INFANT FORMULA (WHO)
Infant Feeding in Emergencies  (WHO)
Formula for Disaster
Breastfeeding Premature Infants

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