thinking…

I want to move… but the thought of moving is so daunting.

We moved out of the city to have a yard, to have a bit more space, to have less noise and to have our own place. We moved so far out of the city because it was the cheapest option, cheaper even than renting. But rents have gone up, home prices have gone up and we are still a one income family with 4 kids instead of 1.

I have long wanted to move back to BC where I was raised, but Simon’s stable job is hard to leave behind when there is a family to take care of. After SMUG (the Summer Montreal Unschooling Gathering) I realized that we were really missing out on a community. The people I love to be around, that share the same interests, whose children are my children’s friends are all far away. Though I try to get out to Montreal often, it is often not often enough and I feel that my kids are really missing out on having a community and having those friends on a regular basis.

So, we have been thinking abour selling the house and moving back to Montreal. Even if it means renting again and no longer having a place of our very own. So after the work is done in the house we will be thinking about putting it up for sale. It makes my palms sweat thinking about it though…  Selling a house with a family of six living in it, packing boxes, downsizing when we have little space as it is.

I do think that it would be worth it… won’t it?

Have you moved? Have you went from owning to renting? Have you downsized with a big family? I would love to hear stories, opinions and have suggestions…

House Rules…

The other day, the boys and I were talking after an exhausting morning of siblings fights… We all know that we have unwritten rules to follow in our relationships with others but we decided that it made sense to wrote them out and put them up on the wall as a reminder.

We all sat down and talked about them and figured out what were the best rules in the house so that everyone could live happily together.

Here is what we came up with:

It’s working…

There are no “consequences” and the only reward is that things are going much smoother in the house… It is reward enough…

when something is happening that is ‘against the rules’ a simple reminder is all that is needed. I never was a lover of having “rules” but I have to say that I am enjoying the atmosphere around here much more these last few days..

Morning shoot…

Khéna, Wilhelmina and I were all up a bit before six this morning… The two older boys were still sleeping when the sun came up and brought the most beautiful light  into the living room…

So what did I do? The obvious of course… I got Wilhelmina all dressed in a beautiful little dress and had a little photo shoot…

I love natural light 🙂

Little princess...Standing tall...

Wilhelmina smiles

My sweet Willa..

I seriously wonder…

I pondered this this morning as I was washing dishes, getting a stew ready in crockpot and making breakfast for the kids simultaneously…

How do people get things done without babywearing?

double hammock back carrynursing in the slingIn the EllarooLittle cat...Sleeping on daddyNew Ergo :)peek!Making Simon's Cake...

I can’t imagine being a parent and not having my hands free.

I wear Willa while I clean, while I cook, while I sew, while I tend to the other kids.

When we are out, Willa goes from the car seat straight into the carrier and I have my hands and eyes for the tasks at hand and the other kids. She is warm and content and is able to see everything I do… People talk to her and not down at her and she is part of the outing at all times…When she is playing and she gets tired, I can just scoop her up, put her in the sling or on my back and she asleep within a minute or two…

Besides Breastfeeding… A good carrier is the ultimate parenting tool…

encapsulating placenta...me :)Simon wearing Wilhelminakiss!walking to the parkMy new BabyhawkEllaroo Elsathe boys...

Split pea soup…

This is based on a Quebecois dish “Soupe aux pois” which is traditionally made with a ham bone, salt pork belly and yellow slit peas. I made a ham the night before and threw out the bone before I had the craving to make this soup, and I didn’t have/want the salt pork belly so I so just used a bit of leftover smoked ham, though you can leave that out also if you really wanted to but the smoky flavour really adds to this dish…

This is another of those very easy soups… though you do need to allow for a few hours of cooking…

First soak 2 cups of dried yellow slit pea in water for 1 1/2 hours…

Dried Split peas soaking

Chop up some leftover smoked ham (about 2 cups)

ham for soup

Celery (2 stalks)

Celery

Carrot (3)

with carrots

Then Chop up a large onion…

chopped onion

Drain the peas and you’re ready to assemble…

In a large soup pot with a bit of olive oil, Sauté the onion until translucent, season with a bit of salt and pepper, add the remainder of the ingredients and 10 cups of water. Bring to a boil and then down to a simmer and let simmer for about 2 1/2 hours… the peas will fall apart on their own…

Adjust seasonings (I added about a tsp of garlic powder and 1/3 tsp of smoked paprika) and that’s it!

Of course I serve it with my homemade bread 🙂

Split-pea soup and homemade bread

Can you believe that I used to refuse to eat any kind of soup?

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