The boys and I had fun doing these…
the first is really simple.
Put some milk in a plate, add a few drops of food colouring and then make it move with a q-tip with dishsoap….
the second is a mix of corn starch and water…
It makes a slimy mixture that becomes hard when you put pressure on it but is still liquid… (Non-Newtonian Fluid)
we had done both in the day and then did them again after supper when Simon was home…
One of Xavier’s favourite things to do at the moment is making Lego Space ships… he spends hours on them, making them perfect…
these are two of the latest… though the smaller enemy ship has now transformed considerably since the photo was taken…
You may or may not have noticed the little blue unschooling blog webring button that I put up a little while ago… At least once a day I follow the links to other blogs and I have found some really great ones…
The great thing about so many unschooling blogs is that they are about the everyday life of people that often have the same ideology as me.. Personally, I find it hard to write about what the boys learn because it is so gradual and it is just part of the everyday.
During the holidays, FIL (father-in-law) came over for a visit… and he asked again about our homeschooling. I think that it is starting to sink in for family that our boys will not be going to school… It was different when Xavier was not of “school age” but now that he is not in Kindergarten… and will not be going into grade 1 etc… it makes all of the difference and the panic seems to be setting in. Especially I believe because in French-Canadian society, homeschooling is just something that is unknown for the most part. So, FIL asked me if I sat Xavier down and “did school” every day… I said no… that we would rather he learn by himself… then he said “and you really think that that is going to work?”… I said “yes, and we are not the first nor the last to use this method, and look what he already knows… it is not like he is behind” and then the subject was changed….
To be honest, I have read what the system believes that kids should know by the end of their “preschool” education, and Xavier is not at all behind, he may even be ahead in some things… he knows his letters, can write his name and will write other words by asking the letters.. he knows quite a few simple math concepts (1/2 + 1/2 = a whole etc) and is gaining more interest in numbers and reading… Socially, he is learning a lot of skills by simply being a big brother, playing games with Simon and so many other ways.
I know that unschooling can and does work, I hope that one day our families will see that. I feel that as time goes on they will see that the boys are learning, are developing and hopefully they will see that homeschooling, and maybe even unschooling is not a way we are depriving our kids, but are a way to let them thrive.
So, for now… as I read the unschooling blogs that are linked in the webring, I feel better that this blog, even though it is also an unschooling blog, is focused on our everyday life and not just what is being learned academically… because really what unschooling is about is learning through life.
For the last two weeks we have all had our turn of being sick… now it is Khéna and Colin a bit… both seem to have a touch of Bronchitis. I used to deal with bronchitis myself a few times a year so I know the signs and sounds of it… since both have it it is most likely viral so the only thing that we can do is let it pass…
Khéna has just been having a few rough days and night though, which of course means that we too have been having a few rough nights.
Besides being sick, I have been having a lot of rough times with Xavier in the last while. He has been emotional and has been tantruming at the drop of a pin… He always needs to be close to us, almost on us all of the time and I get to feel very touched out because of it and I get impatient which I do not like. I hope something clicks soon, because the constant confrontation is really wearing me out. Of course I can’t focus on the negative and I have to say that other things have changed with him… he has gained a big interest in letters and sounds and writing. He can write his name without a problem and will write other names by asking what letters to write. He also started to sound out words, though it hasn’t clicked completely how to link all of those those sounds together but it isn’t far away I think. He is also drawing a lot more and
The other boys, besides being sick, are doing great and are such a joy to be around.
Colin is really understanding and very compassionate. He has his moments of course but it is really easy to reason with him. He makes us laugh constantly and is such a bundle of energy… I forget that is not even 3 1/2 at times though… his language skills are great and we can have really cool conversations with him… He is amazing at puzzles and his imagination is so fun also… He has a Harry Potter figurine and loves to play out Harry Potter stories but doesn’t have the other characters so his hands become Hermione and Ron, his hands walk and talk and play out tons of adventures…
Khéna is also a little bundle of smiles and is really easygoing… He is walking full time now and can now stand up from sitting without assistance also which makes it so that he never crawls anymore. It is so fun to see another kids walking around the house. It makes his presence in the house different and makes us realize that we have another little boy in the house. He loves the gift we gave him at his birthday… He walks with it, put things in it, takes the sides off and sits in it and plays… or sometimes sits in it and gets pushed around the house by his big brothers… It was such a great gift that really I still have no clue what to give him for x-mas because there is not much else that he needs and he is too young to want anything… Another change is that he has gained a lot more interest in food and eats pretty much anything that we eat… it makes it weird that instead of preparing 4 plates at supper time I am now preparing 5…
So here we are… we have been having a few ups and downs…
so it is life as usual I guess…
This has been circulating around so I thought I would share it here too…
1 Please stop asking us if it’s legal. If it is — and it is — it’s insulting to imply that we’re criminals. And if we were criminals, would we admit it?
2 Learn what the words “socialize” and “socialization” mean, and use the one you really mean instead of mixing them up the way you do now. Socializing means hanging out with other people for fun. Socialization means having acquired the skills necessary to do so successfully and pleasantly. If you’re talking to me and my kids, that means that we do in fact go outside now and then to visit the other human beings on the planet, and you can safely assume that we’ve got a decent grasp of both concepts.
3 Quit interrupting my kid at her dance lesson, scout meeting, choir practice, baseball game, art class, field trip, park day, music class, 4H club, or soccer lesson to ask her if as a homeschooler she ever gets to socialize.
4 Don’t assume that every homeschooler you meet is homeschooling for the same reasons and in the same way as that one homeschooler you know.
5 If that homeschooler you know is actually someone you saw on TV, either on the news or on a “reality” show, the above goes double.
6 Please stop telling us horror stories about the homeschoolers you know, know of, or think you might know who ruined their lives by homeschooling. You’re probably the same little bluebird of happiness whose hobby is running up to pregnant women and inducing premature labor by telling them every ghastly birth story you’ve ever heard. We all hate you, so please go away.
7 We don’t look horrified and start quizzing your kids when we hear they’re in public school. Please stop drilling our children like potential oil fields to see if we’re doing what you consider an adequate job of homeschooling.
8 Stop assuming all homeschoolers are religious.
9 Stop assuming that if we’re religious, we must be homeschooling for religious reasons.
10 We didn’t go through all the reading, learning, thinking, weighing of options, experimenting, and worrying that goes into homeschooling just to annoy you. Really. This was a deeply personal decision, tailored to the specifics of our family. Stop taking the bare fact of our being homeschoolers as either an affront or a judgment about your own educational decisions.
11 Please stop questioning my competency and demanding to see my credentials. I didn’t have to complete a course in catering to successfully cook dinner for my family; I don’t need a degree in teaching to educate my children. If spending at least twelve years in the kind of chew-it-up-and-spit-it-out educational facility we call public school left me with so little information in my memory banks that I can’t teach the basics of an elementary education to my nearest and dearest, maybe there’s a reason I’m so reluctant to send my child to school.
12 If my kid’s only six and you ask me with a straight face how I can possibly teach him what he’d learn in school, please understand that you’re calling me an idiot. Don’t act shocked if I decide to respond in kind.
13 Stop assuming that because the word “home” is right there in “homeschool,” we never leave the house. We’re the ones who go to the amusement parks, museums, and zoos in the middle of the week and in the off-season and laugh at you because you have to go on weekends and holidays when it’s crowded and icky.
14 Stop assuming that because the word “school” is right there in homeschool, we must sit around at a desk for six or eight hours every day, just like your kid does. Even if we’re into the “school” side of education — and many of us prefer a more organic approach — we can burn through a lot of material a lot more efficiently, because we don’t have to gear our lessons to the lowest common denominator.
15 Stop asking, “But what about the Prom?” Even if the idea that my kid might not be able to indulge in a night of over-hyped, over-priced revelry was enough to break my heart, plenty of kids who do go to school don’t get to go to the Prom. For all you know, I’m one of them. I might still be bitter about it. So go be shallow somewhere else.
16 Don’t ask my kid if she wouldn’t rather go to school unless you don’t mind if I ask your kid if he wouldn’t rather stay home and get some sleep now and then.
17 Stop saying, “Oh, I could never homeschool!” Even if you think it’s some kind of compliment, it sounds more like you’re horrified. One of these days, I won’t bother disagreeing with you any more.
18 If you can remember anything from chemistry or calculus class, you’re allowed to ask how we’ll teach these subjects to our kids. If you can’t, thank you for the reassurance that we couldn’t possibly do a worse job than your teachers did, and might even do a better one.
19 Stop asking about how hard it must be to be my child’s teacher as well as her parent. I don’t see much difference between bossing my kid around academically and bossing him around the way I do about everything else.
20 Stop saying that my kid is shy, outgoing, aggressive, anxious, quiet, boisterous, argumentative, pouty, fidgety, chatty, whiny, or loud because he’s homeschooled. It’s not fair that all the kids who go to school can be as annoying as they want to without being branded as representative of anything but childhood.
21 Quit assuming that my kid must be some kind of prodigy because she’s homeschooled.
22 Quit assuming that I must be some kind of prodigy because I homeschool my kids.
23 Quit assuming that I must be some kind of saint because I homeschool my kids.
24 Stop talking about all the great childhood memories my kids won’t get because they don’t go to school, unless you want me to start asking about all the not-so-great childhood memories you have because you went to school.
25 Here’s a thought: If you can’t say something nice about homeschooling, shut up!