2 experiments we did yesterday…

The boys and I had fun doing these…

the first is really simple.

Put some milk in a plate, add a few drops of food colouring and then make it move with a q-tip with dishsoap….

the second is a mix of corn starch and water…

It makes a slimy mixture that becomes hard when you put pressure on it but is still liquid… (Non-Newtonian Fluid)

we had done both in the day and then did them again after supper when Simon was home…

lego ships…

One of Xavier’s favourite things to do at the moment is making Lego Space ships… he spends hours on them, making them perfect…

these are two of the latest… though the smaller enemy ship has now transformed considerably since the photo was taken…

Enemy Ship

Lego ship

Lego ship

unschooling blogs…

You may or may not have noticed the little blue unschooling blog webring button that I put up a little while ago… At least once a day I follow the links to other blogs and I have found some really great ones…

The great thing about so many unschooling blogs is that they are about the everyday life of people that often have the same ideology as me..  Personally, I find it hard to write about what the boys learn because it is so gradual and it is just part of the everyday.

During the holidays, FIL (father-in-law) came over for a visit… and he asked again about our homeschooling. I think that it is starting to sink in for family that our boys will not be going to school… It was different when Xavier was not of “school age” but now that he is not in Kindergarten… and will not be going into grade 1 etc…  it makes all of the difference and the panic seems to be setting in.  Especially I believe because in French-Canadian society, homeschooling is just something that is unknown for the most part. So, FIL asked me if I sat Xavier down and “did school” every day… I said no… that we would rather he learn by himself… then he said “and you really think that that is going to work?”… I said “yes, and we are not the first nor the last to use this method, and look what he already knows… it is not like he is behind” and then the subject was changed….

To be honest, I have read what the system believes that kids should know by the end of their “preschool” education, and Xavier is not at all behind, he may even be ahead in some things… he knows his letters, can write his name and will write other words by asking the letters.. he knows quite a few simple math concepts (1/2 + 1/2 = a whole etc) and is gaining more interest in numbers and reading…  Socially, he is learning a lot of skills by simply being a big brother, playing games with Simon and so many other ways.

I know that unschooling can and does work, I hope that one day our families will see that. I feel that as time goes on they will see that the boys are learning, are developing and hopefully they will see that homeschooling, and maybe even unschooling is not a way we are depriving our kids, but are a way to let them thrive.

So, for now… as I read the unschooling blogs that are linked in the webring, I feel better that this blog, even though it is also an unschooling blog, is focused on our everyday life and not just what is being learned academically… because really what unschooling is about is learning through life.

you know you have been nursing for a long time when…

you can’t see the baby anymore…

you call out and he doesn’t come and then you start asking the older kids where he is and are about to get up to look for him only to realize that to get up and look for him you would have to unlatch him and put him down….

changing the language around breastfeeding…

I have talked about this a few times already here on my blog…

Why is it that the breastfeeding is always compared to Formula in a way that makes is sound like Formula is the norm and that breastfeeding just better… It makes is sound like yeah sure breastfeeding is great but Formula is good enough… and of course no one is perfect so really why breastfeed?

The problem is… Breastfeeding is the norm… Formula can be dangerous and the choice between breastfeeding and Formula is not a simple choice to make, children die because they are not breastfed, really it should not be a choice at all… we need to make the language reflect that.

Here is a Hathor comic that is a great example…

hathor

(oh… and just a disclaimer… I got a few comments and e-mails from some moms who seem to love to hate this blog…Though I do believe that it should not be a choice, I do know that Formula is sometimes that lesser of two evils and that the choice is made for moms. However, that being said, in many or most cases, that is where education of doctors and nurses need to come in because they often have no clue about breastfeeding and often the children that can be hurt by formula the most are being hurt… also milk banks should become more widely spread and availible, so that more children will not suffer the effects of a lack of breastmilk.)

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