So it has been a week since we found out that #3 is on the way but only a handful of friends (and a few mere aquiantances) know about it.. oh and anyone that happens to read my blog 🙂 But, we haven’t told any family yet and I don’t know when we will…
With the boys everyone in the family knew right away… I mean the test wasn’t even dry yet and they knew…. but this time I just feel like waiting a bit…. Maybe it is to spite my mom, maybe I just want to wait a bit…. maybe it is just that I just don’t want to answer questions… I mean there was enough questions around nursing through pregnancy last time, that this time Tandem nursing during pregnancy… well I just rather not tell… going pretty much unassisted? Yeah… that will be fun to talk about with them….
So, I feel like waiting until I am showing and then just let them notice or tell them if they haven’t. I think I would rather tell them in person this time instead of over the phone to be able to see their reactions. I saw my mom the day we took the test and would have told her but Simon didn’t want to do it in front of everyone that was there (her boyfriends sister and neice are staying with them for a few months while the neice get an operation)… Anyways… I wonder when the time will feel right but for now I like having this little secret….