I am now completely in the third trimester and I am feeling it…

My pelvic pain (SPD) is in full force and it is hard to turn over in bed without tears coming to my eyes and I am definitely waddling when walking… though I knew it was coming because it started a few weeks ago, it was on and off and still not too bad until now… I thought that last time it got worse later on but when I looked back at my pregnancy journal I realize that things are pretty similar to my pregnancy with Khéna…

Talking about the pregnancy journal, I am enjoying looking back at it… in some ways I wish that I would have done the same this time, but I am also not in the same place as I was last time and I am a lot more laid back about UPing…

Last time, I felt I needed to do something and realized around 29 weeks that it was pretty much useless… if something doesn’t feel right, it isn’t the little “checkups” that will tell me, it is what I am feeling at the moment that is important… but this morning when I decided to measure my fundus height for the first time in a few months and saw that I was measuring 34cm (about 5 weeks ahead) and it was reassuring to look back and see that at about the exact same time last pregnancy it was exactly the same… I am carrying quite differently (high and in) and this baby is flipping over all the time which is different for me also… Of course, I only did one more update after the 29 week one last time so I won’t be able to compare much anymore for another 6 weeks…

I just can’t believe how fast things are going… In 4 weeks it will be Khéna’s third birthday… 4 weeks later will be X-mas and then about 4 weeks after that there will be a new babe in our home and Simon will be starting his paternity leave…I am actually wishing a bit that I will go later as I did with Xavier and Khéna (I know I won’t be thinking like that at the end).

Because Simon will get 7 months of paternity leave, the longer the babe stays in, the more of the summer he will have with us…

We still haven’t done anything to prepare for the baby either…

I need to

  • buy a dresser (or put shelves up in the boys closet for their clothes) so that the baby gets the baby dresser…
  • Get the clothes out of the shed and declutter it, keeping only the minimum… (we have WAY too much)
  • Start making some meals for the freezer
  • Find my birth/exercise ball and inflate it
  • Prepare a basket for the birth and find my list of what tinctures to use when in labour
  • Figure out if I am going to encapsulate the Placenta and get the necessary tools I need for that if I do.
  • and of course there are probably a few more things that I forgetting about at the moment…