Well it was a rougher time than I thought to upgrade this time (I haven't had problems in the past)… though things were working they were not at their best and it just felt shaky… 

My server has an autoinstall feature for WordPress along with other programs and i makes upgrading a one button thing… no erasing and uploading etc…. however my blog was installed by hand so the update could not be done that way… however my test blog was easily upgraded….

So in hope of things being easier in the future I decided today to start again cleaner… it worked and things should all be working the same or better (though there are still a few things to still work out)… if you see any problems please tell me…